Ever wondered what it’s like to be in love? No, it’s not like Bollywood movies where you run around behind trees and rolls over hills. You are not Po from Kung Fu Panda, and you are not capable of doing stunts like that.
Being in love is great. What’s not great is the feeling of knowing the fact that the other is drifting apart from you. It is a tough choice to start preparing for a breakup. You have to be very sane for this kind of decision and eventually have to accept the fact that your partner is going to leave you.
On that note, self love is what you need to start practicing the most. Practice it so much that you don’t need the word “breakup” in your life anymore. You cannot break up with yourself, right?
There have been countless nights where I have cried myself to sleep, asking myself only one question, “WHY?” And it’s completely fine to do so. Crying is healthy, letting your emotions out is healthy, being reckless is healthy but being self destructive, being notorious to people and closing yourself up isn’t.
Wake up to new experiences, challenge yourself and win against yourself.
I’m a nihilist, but I do try to find my ray of hope someway. I am fighting too, people. Fight your way through. As a best friend would recommend to me everyday, “You’re a fighter, Bandana. Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re any less. You are going to make it big.” And I try to live by that every day.
Make it better. Work on the relationship. Work in that project. Work on the job position you’ve applied for. Don’t be a quitter. That makes you weak and if anybody is not supporting you with that dream, then learn how to walk alone.
I will not suggest you to smile more. Because I know that never helps. But what I can suggest you is to keep trying.
And here I rest my article of the day.